"Those poor boys"
"She deserves to be punished too."
"I’m not saying I support rape, but-"
"Sorry to say - she deserved it."
"She put herself in harm’s way"
"But if she was fingered, then that’s not rape."
"She ruined their lives."
"Well she didn’t exactly say ‘no’.."
"Yea, but did you see what she was wearing?"
"Boys will be boys!"
"She should know better than to drink at a party…"
"Ahh your art is great, you’re a natural!"
Nah son it’s just years of practice and hard work.
"Oh my gosh you have a natural talent!"
NAH SON IT’S JUST YEARS OF PRACTICE AND HARD WORK.
"You have a gift!"
So, I had to take an art class for teachers and we were taught this. We were taught to watch our words that might imply otherwise. If we have to draw on our board in the classroom, you don’t say “I can’t draw,” if you feel the need to say something, you say something to the affect of how you didn’t learn how to draw or didn’t practice enough.